Not dating black people racist


18-Dec-2017 22:36

“Can I say the N-word if I’m singing along to a song? ” (I don’t know dude, I ask myself the same question every goddamn day.) I know that I shouldn’t feel compelled to always speak for my race, but I can’t expect a white boyfriend to stop asking some of those questions if we’re to come to a mutual understanding.

Lately, though, I just don’t feel like answering them.

Communication is necessary for any healthy relationship, and in an interracial relationship it’s paramount.

Every white man I’ve dated has, sometimes consciously and sometimes not, asked me to explain to them some aspect of blackness.

No matter how close I held the mirror up to their faces, sometimes their good and liberal wells of understanding and compassion were simply inaccessible.

On election night, I thought about all those moments, and I felt overwhelmed at the possibility of taking that on over the next four years.

It’s a pretty good way to pass the time from Brooklyn to midtown. I spent my childhood surrounded by black and brown kids, but when I got to high school, suddenly everyone around me was white.

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When we do, I look his way every so often to see if he’s staring back, to see if we’ve got what my best friend and I call “the affinity,” a mutual acknowledgement that we one another. But while they chased after blondes and brunettes, I was ignored.

Later, I tried to convey how hurt I was that he didn’t say anything, but he didn’t seem to understand how bewildered I was.



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